First Looks
You’re knee-deep (or maybe even shoulder-deep) in planning your wedding, and this idea keeps popping up: Do we do a first look or not? Both sides have pros and cons, and that is what we will discuss in this blog. Some people love them, some people hate them, and some people might not have a clue what it is (no shame!). We will explain IT ALL, so sit back, grab your favorite planning snack (M&Ms are a fav), and let’s hash out all of the details of doing a first look on your wedding day!
What is a first look?
A first look is where the couple gets ready a bit earlier and meets before the ceremony so they can see each other’s reaction privately, do private vows (if you want), sign their marriage license, and the main reason, take couple’s portraits before the ceremony so they can spend the cocktail hour with their guests. Without a first look, the couple does not see each other until the bride walks down the aisle, and then they take all of their pictures during cocktail hour.
One question to ask yourself is: Do you want to spend the cocktail hour taking photos or mingling with your guests (or taking a little alone time somewhere else)? There is no wrong answer, just one that is right for you and your soon-to-be spouse!
Photos by Cassidy Cheyenne, Alyssa Foster, and Lexus Reynolds
Now, let’s dive into the pros and cons lists
Key questions to ask yourself and your spouse
Do you think it will feel too staged to do a first look? Does it fit your vibes as a couple?
If you do a first look, do you want photos of it? You can do it privately, but most people want pictures of the groom’s reaction.
Do you want to get your pictures done before the ceremony? Or are you okay with doing it during cocktail hour?
Do you and your bridal party need more time to get ready in the morning? Or do you want more time with your honey on your wedding day?
LADIES, ask your man! We are surprised at how many grooms feel very strongly about this.
Image by Ginger Moose Photography
Other Options
-First Touch: If you decide that you don’t want to see each other before the ceremony, you can do what is called a first touch. This is where you have the couple meet at a corner or around a door so they can’t see each other, but they can hold hands and have a moment together before the ceremony. Again, they can share private vows at this time, or they can simply talk. You can also use this time to take pictures in poses that do not require the groom to see the bride (her hugging him from behind, face to face with eyes closed, etc).
Photos by Wild Faith, Cassidy Cheyenne, Lexus Reynolds, Shutterbug, and Ginger Moose
-Early Morning Time Together: Some couples get up early in the morning and go on a walk or go somewhere secluded and have a little bit of alone time. The bride isn’t all dolled up, so the surprise and anticipation aren’t ruined. But it does allow for some sweet moments together before the rush of the day starts.
Photos by PJ Van Photography
